Why It Was Important For Me to Stop Prioritizing Dating as a Latina

Why It Was Important For Me to Stop Prioritizing Dating as a Latina

In "Sex and the City," Charlotte famously suggests to the rest of the women in the group, "Maybe we could be each other's soulmates? And then we could let men be just these great nice guys to have fun with." That line has always resonated strongly with me — even when I first heard it in my early 20s, while I was in a long-term relationship. I think that's probably why Samantha was my favorite character on the show. Not because she slept around, …