—Malte Mueller—Getty ImagesA few years ago, when I lived alone in New York City, I couldn’t for the life of me figure out how to feed myself without opening DoorDash or Seamless or UberEats.Most days, sometimes twice a day, I ordered food delivery. Even though whatever I ordered, whether greasy, lukewarm fast food or a favorite $18 kale caesar salad, rarely felt worth it, and almost always made me feel varying degrees of shame. I earned a good s…