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What to say (and what not to say) when a loved one has breast cancer
Dr. Sylvia Reyes says specific help and calm listening can ease isolation, while myths and unsolicited advice can add stress.
Sylvia Reyes, a breast surgeon at the Northwell Cancer Institute, shares guidance on supporting loved ones with a breast cancer diagnosis, emphasizing that thoughtful communication and tangible actions combat isolation.
A new diagnosis is emotionally overwhelming, and hearing oversimplified theories about causes can unintentionally inflict an emotional burden on patients when they need comfort most.
Asking, "Would you like to talk about it?" opens a door for patients to share feelings without pressure, while specific offers like driving to appointments lift a weight from their shoulders.
Simply being present and non-judgmental combats isolation for patients, while validating their proactive health choices like regular screenings provides powerful reinforcement for continued well-being.
Because breast cancer is deeply personal, each case requires a treatment plan tailored to the individual's tumor, and loved ones should offer hope rather than fear based on outdated medical narratives.