What Is "The Ick," and Are You, a Man, Giving It to Women?

What Is "The Ick," and Are You, a Man, Giving It to Women?

We’ve all been there: you’re crushing on someone, fantasizing about them and probably creating an idealized version of them in your head. Maybe things even progress IRL. You hang out, go on a few dates and then bam! You notice something about them, or they do something, that turns you off instantly. Maybe they’re mean to the waiter, kiss strangely or use the wrong laughing emoji. Whatever it is, it’s shattered your fantasy and the possibility of…