WATFORD CITY, N.D. — "Are you coming to visit me this weekend?” I asked my husband over a FaceTime call last week while our daughters popped in and out to show me the kittens, or make funny faces to the camera, with their hair wrapped up in a towel after a bedtime shower. During our nightly visits while I’m at treatment in Rochester, at least one, or sometimes both of my girls, takes the phone into her room to have a private conversation with me…