The Way You Talk to Your Kids Matters—Here Are 10 Phrases to Avoid

The Way You Talk to Your Kids Matters—Here Are 10 Phrases to Avoid

These everyday phrases parents say may do more harm than good, but here are some ideas on what to say instead.Reviewed by Laura Anderson Kirby, PhDCredit: PeopleImages/Getty ImagesKey TakeawaysSome common phrases we say to kids can unintentionally discourage their independence or self-esteem.Replacing these phrases with specific, supportive language helps kids feel understood and motivated.Small changes in how we talk to kids can foster confiden…