Have you ever sent a gift or money to a son, daughter or grandchild and wondered if they ever got it or how about a graduation invitation. You send a check and never hear from them again. I was raised in an Irish family of seven. Besides having jobs at young ages including babysitting, mowing lawns and chores around the house, another task we were required to do was to write thank you notes to aunts and uncles for gifts at birthday and Christmas…