The lost art of disagreeing well: In Idaho, we need these ground rules to truly solve conflicts.

The lost art of disagreeing well: In Idaho, we need these ground rules to truly solve conflicts.

We should challenge claims, not character; ask questions before assigning motives; and begin with a shared goal, writes guest columnist Andrew Ellestad. (Photo by Getty Image)Less than two weeks after the senseless killing of Jordan Harbst on the Boise Greenbelt, the finger-pointing had begun. State lawmakers claimed a lack of compliance by city officials was to blame. Boise’s mayor struck back arguing that legislators were turning a tragedy int…