Tessie Tomas in full bloom

Tessie Tomas in full bloom

Tessie Tomas — steel magnolia.  “Wow, sosyal naman (how classy),” says Tessie with an almost demure smile. “How about steel sampaguita? Is that better?” The symbolism is the same. Both flowers represent strength and resilience despite their delicate exterior.  “I’m not ashamed to say that I come from an alcoholic family. I have been challenged with decades of helping my two siblings with their struggle with addiction. One of them unfortunately d…