For decades, the cultural script for a bachelorette party has been aggressively consistent: matching pink T-shirts with a superfluous indication of the reason for the gathering, most often in a Pinterest-favorite script font. Maybe a tiara that says “Bride.” Possibly a limousine, and at least one nearly anatomically correct plastic novelty item crafted into a wardrobe item. And alcohol. Often, copious amounts of alcohol. But queer weddings hav…