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Dear Abby: Message About New Husband Arrives Anonymously
A newlywed struggles with trust and considers asking her husband for an Asperger's assessment after receiving an anonymous message confirming her suspicions amid recent personal loss.
- Two months into her marriage, the letter writer, a newly married woman, says an anonymous sender recently messaged her claiming her husband has Asperger's.
- Grief and past abuse shape the writer's reaction, as she recently lost her mother to cancer and previously dated a narcissist who lied, deepening her trust concerns.
- The anonymous contact included personal details, noting the letter writer already suspected her husband has Asperger's but now doubts she can trust him while wanting to ask him to get assessed.
- Dear Abby recommends preparatory research and contacting the Association for Autism and Neurodiversity, noting the husband may be in denial rather than deliberately lying before suggesting an assessment.
- Putting the disclosure in context, the advice column adds the letter writer should know diagnosis need not destroy a marriage and anonymous correspondents usually aim to cause trouble.
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Dear Abby: Message about new husband arrives anonymously
DEAR ABBY: I've been married to my husband for two months. I haven't told anyone I'm married except my close friends and family. Someone recently messaged me about my husband, stating that he has Asperger's. They know my name and have my phone number. I don't know who this person is or why they would tell me this now.I already suspected my husband has Asperger's, so I'm not shocked, but this is eating me up inside. I can't sleep. I can't think. …
·Chicago, United States
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