Dear Abby: I Found the Man of My Dreams, but There’s a Bedroom Issue
- The author found the man of her dreams but faces a bedroom issue affecting their otherwise strong relationship.
- She struggles to address his performance without causing discomfort, as this is a difficult and sensitive topic for both.
- Advisors recommend having the conversation when both are calm, avoiding the bedroom, and focusing on clear communication to reduce tension.
- The advice states, "If he loves you, he will go and learn something," emphasizing that willingness to improve shows care in the relationship.
- Resolving this issue through thoughtful dialogue and possibly professional help could strengthen the relationship and improve intimacy.
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Dear Abby: Frank conversation hasn't paid off in the bedroom
DEAR ABBY: After years of disappointment, I finally found the man of my dreams. How do I tell him he isn't doing certain things right in the bedroom without it being uncomfortable? I have mentioned it before, but it didn't stick. This is the only problem with our relationship. I don't want to hurt his feelings or make either one of us uncomfortable, but he's just not getting the job done. — WORKING ON IT IN TENNESSEEDEAR WORKING: I will assume t…
Dear Abby: The man of my dreams needs some work in the bedroom
DEAR ABBY: After years of disappointment, I finally found the man of my dreams. How do I tell him he isn’t doing certain things right in the bedroom without it being uncomfortable? I have mentioned it before, but it didn’t stick. This is the only problem with our relationship. I don’t want to hurt his feelings or make either one of us uncomfortable, but he’s just not getting the job done. -- WORKING ON IT IN TENNESSEE
Dear Abby: How do I tell my friend I don’t want to share a bed anymore?
Dear Abby: After years of disappointment, I finally found the man of my dreams. How do I tell him he isn’t doing certain things right in the bedroom without it being uncomfortable? I have mentioned it before, but it didn’t stick. This is the only problem with our relationship. I don’t want to hurt his feelings or make either one of us uncomfortable, but he’s just not getting the job done.
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