Before her destination wedding in Seville, Spain, my cousinSharon, an American, ordered six ramos (“bouquets”) for her bridesmaids. The local florist, hearing remos, delivered six wooden oars tied with ribbon.Half the memories of destination weddings are the disasters they spawn. Take the Tuscany destination wedding where the bride-to-be shared on Reddit that she had offered to help a struggling relative with airfare. It was a nice gesture, but …