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Dear Abby: My Late Wife’s Family Doesn’t Think I Should Date Again
- A man wrote to Dear Abby on 2025-06-10 about dating four months after his late wife died following a prolonged illness.
- He retired at 62 and cared for his wife before her death, but his late wife’s family disapproves of his early dating, seeing it as disrespectful.
- The man experiences daily grief and has started spending time with a long-time female friend without intimacy, while also noting his siblings’ and brother’s family distancing.
- He reports his brother shows false memories suggesting possible dementia and that his brother’s wife Gayle often causes family conflicts and alienates relatives.
- The man questions the advice to wait one year before dating as his grieving began during caregiving, and he suggests discussing concerns with siblings to address family tensions.
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Widower being told to take his time after wife's passing
DEAR ABBY: I lost my wife of 20 years four months ago after a prolonged illness. I retired at 62 and became her primary caretaker. The job of caretaker is endless and stressful, and yet rewarding. A female friend of…
Dear Abby: What is this ‘wait 1 year’ thing about dating after spouse’s death?
DEAR ABBY: I lost my wife of 20 years four months ago after a prolonged illness. I retired at 62 and became her primary caretaker. The job of caretaker is endless and stressful, and yet rewarding. A female friend of many years (“Dinah”) came to the memorial. I grieved, attended Grief Share and read articles about grief. I experience grief every day and will for my whole life.
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uexpressWidower Being Told To Take His Time After Wife's Passing
DEAR ABBY: I lost my wife of 20 years four months ago after a prolonged illness. I retired at 62 and became her primary caretaker. The job of caretaker is endless and stressful, and yet rewarding. A female friend of ...
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