Dear Abby: Friendliness is in my job description. So why does it attract all the jerks?
- A hospitality worker wrote to Dear Abby that being friendly to customers is required but often misread by men, and she asked for help to stop attracting unwelcome attention.
- Workplace rules should be listed in an employee handbook, the columnist advised, to protect everyone from misconduct like harassment by co-workers.
- A co-worker sexually harasses her throughout work shifts, while other male customers repeatedly ignore her refusals, the writer described.
- Abby's advice was to start documenting the harasser's behavior and warn other female employees, then tell the harasser his conduct is harassment and report it to a manager as it 'could cost him his job'.
- The column suggested many women in hospitality wear a wedding ring to deter unwelcome attention; Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren and syndicated by Andrews McMeel.
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Dear Abby: How do I stay friendly at work without leading men on?
Dear Abby: I work in a place where being friendly to customers is part of my job requirement, but I feel like many guys interpret this the wrong way. It seems I am a “jerk attractor,” and I don’t know how to make it stop. The worst of these jerks can’t take a hint that I’m not interested. One of them is a co-worker who sexually harasses me all day. Please help me so I stop attracting these losers.
Dear Abby: Friendly professional tired of getting hit on at work
Please help me so I stop attracting these losers.
Dear Abby: How can I stop workplace harassment?
Dear Abby: I work in a place where being friendly to customers is part of my job requirement, but I feel like many guys interpret this the wrong way. It seems I am a “jerk attractor,” and I don’t know how to make it stop. The worst of these jerks can’t take a hint that I’m not interested. One of them is a co-worker who sexually harasses me all day. Please help me so I stop attracting these losers.
Dear Abby: How do I stop attracting guys at work?
DEAR ABBY: I work in a place where being friendly to customers is part of my job requirement, but I feel like many guys interpret this the wrong way. It seems I am a “jerk attractor,” and I don’t know how to make it stop. The worst of these jerks can’t take a hint that I’m not interested. One of them is a co-worker who sexually harasses me all day. Please help me so I stop attracting these losers. — FRIENDLY IN MASSACHUSETTS DEAR FRIENDLY: While…
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