US EditionDear Abby: 21-year-old is angry she wasn’t told about relatives on absent dad’s side of the family
The daughter’s paternal grandmother revealed a paternity test on her 21st birthday, triggering family conflict and revealing a previously kept secret in their small town.
- On my daughter's 21st birthday, the paternal grandmother called and presented a paternity test as a birthday gift to the 38-year-old mother’s daughter, Penny.
- After becoming pregnant at 16, the writer largely raised Penny alone, choosing not to involve Penny's father or the father's family because they were uninvolved, though she admitted their small town made secrecy unrealistic.
- The paternal grandparents still live locally, and Penny's father had several other children, while Grandma is in poor health and her previous caregiver moved across the country.
- Penny is angry that her mother was not honest about her history and that the grandmother only now acknowledges the relationship, while the writer is furious that paternal relatives placed Penny in this situation.
- Looking ahead, the mother worries about caregiving expectations as the writer says she worked hard to build a life for Penny and suspects Grandma wants Penny to assume caregiving responsibility.
11 Articles
11 Articles
Dear Abby: I’m furious that the other family has their hooks in my daughter
DEAR ABBY: I am a 38-year-old woman with a 21-year-old daughter, “Penny.” Related Articles Dear Abby: When the neighbors open their garage, we have to flee Dear Abby: I find showering unpleasant, so I don’t do it. How do I know if this is problem? Dear Abby: I’m going broke paying for what my partner’s grandchildren consume Dear Abby: I was hurt to find out the reason my friend cut…
Dear Abby: 21-year-old is angry she wasn’t told about relatives on absent dad’s side of the family
DEAR ABBY: I am a 38-year-old woman with a 21-year-old daughter, “Penny.” I got pregnant at 16 and was very much alone, with little help from those around me. For a variety of reasons, I decided not to involve the father or his family.
Dear Abby: My daughter discovered the truth about her father and now she’s furious
Dear Abby advises a mother on how her secret about her child's father got out, and how the paternal grandmother is causing a rift in her family, and wants to know if keeping the secret was the right thing to do.
Dear Abby: After years of no contact, family wants in
Dear Abby: I am a 38-year-old woman with a 21-year-old daughter, “Penny.” I got pregnant at 16 and was very much alone, with little help from those around me. For a variety of reasons, I decided not to involve the father or his family. They knew I was pregnant but chose to remain uninvolved and haven’t helped in any way. I worked hard to build a life for Penny and myself, and I have remained single all this time. Her father has since passed away…
Coverage Details
Bias Distribution
- 45% of the sources are Center
Factuality
To view factuality data please Upgrade to Premium
