Dear Abby: My Wife Is the Love of My Life. But Since Her Hysterectomy, She No Longer Wants Sex
The wife's reduced sexual desire following her hysterectomy has led to a significant change in their intimacy, with the couple exploring medical advice and communication strategies.
- A man from California wrote to Dear Abby seeking advice about his wife's loss of sex drive after her hysterectomy.
- He shared that they previously had an active sex life several times weekly, but since her surgery, her interest in sex has diminished, even though she agrees to planned intimate encounters.
- He said his wife supports him otherwise, but often does not follow through with planned intimacy and he feels unwanted and undesired.
- Dear Abby recommended that the man have an honest conversation with his wife about their situation, explaining that sexual desire can be influenced by hormonal factors. She also suggested they consider consulting her gynecologist and using regular reminders to help maintain their sexual connection.
- The case highlights marital challenges after medical procedures affecting libido and suggests communication and medical advice might improve their intimacy.
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DEAR ABBY: My wife is the love of my life. She is, and always has been, my dream girl. We used to have sex three or four times a week, but since her hysterectomy, she no longer desires sex. She’s OK with scheduling sex on a certain date, but most of the time she doesn’t follow through because she doesn’t think about it, and I feel unwanted and undesired. Other than this issue, she is the woman for me. She makes me happy. She is very supportive a…
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Dear Abby: My wife is the love of my life. She is, and always has been, my dream girl. We used to have sex three or four times a week, but since her hysterectomy, she no longer desires sex. She’s OK with scheduling sex on a certain date, but most of the time she doesn’t follow through because she doesn’t think about it, and I feel unwanted and undesired. Other than this issue, she is the woman for me. She makes me happy. She is very supportive a…
Dear Abby: Wife waves off sex after medical procedure
Dear Abby: My wife is the love of my life. She is, and always has been, my dream girl. We used to have sex three or four times a week, but since her hysterectomy, she no longer desires sex. She’s OK with scheduling sex on a certain date, but most of the time she doesn’t follow through because she doesn’t think about it, and I feel unwanted and undesired. Other than this issue, she is the woman for me. She makes me happy. She is very supportive a…
Dear Abby: My wife’s sex drive disappeared after surgery
Dear Abby: My wife is the love of my life. She is, and always has been, my dream girl. We used to have sex three or four times a week, but since her hysterectomy, she no longer desires sex. She’s OK with scheduling sex on a certain date, but most of the time she doesn’t follow through because she doesn’t think about it, and I feel unwanted and undesired. Other than this issue, she is the woman for me. She makes me happy. She is very supportive a…
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