How often do we believe that we can’t do something, when the reality is that we won’t? Can’t is a tricky word. It is filled with excuses and limitations. If we believe we can’t do something, we most often won’t even try. In the moment when the thing arises, we accept defeat without effort. And every time we accept defeat, without trying, we make our world smaller. I’ve lived this. For months, I stayed home. I kept the same routine. Every day loo…