Shall I write yet one more piece about Graham Platner? Yes, yes, I shall! During the whole Platner mess, I thought about writing many times, but succumbed only once. Rather than go into specifics, I stayed at the generalities of gender. But I’ll be more specific. Part of the reason I didn’t write was that it’s tiresome to write again, one more time, about the ways some men feel it’s okay to abuse women. That’s all kinds of abuse – words or physi…