Aug. 18 Abby: Toxic Relationship Affects Woman's Health
Abigail Van Buren says the woman should seek licensed family therapy and Al-Anon support as anger and alcohol issues continue.
- Over, writing to Dear Abby, reports her relationship with Neil is severely affecting her mental and physical health after nearly five years together.
- Neil struggles with anger and alcohol, often cursing in front of his two daughters, ages 11 and 13, while their household lacks rules or discipline.
- Over's physical health has deteriorated, manifesting in stomach issues, weight loss, and psoriasis; she struggles with bipolar disorder and feels their couples therapy has not improved Neil's behavior.
- Abigail Van Buren, columnist for Dear Abby, advised Over to change therapists and attend Al-Anon meetings to understand that Neil's anger and alcohol issues cannot be solved by staying.
- Van Buren urged Over to stop worrying about Neil and focus on regaining her strength, emphasizing that his children are not her responsibility and she should move on.
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Toronto SunDear Abby: Toxic relationship affects woman's health
Neil's children are not and should not be your responsibility.
Dear Abby: My fiancé curses at me in front of his daughters. Should I leave?
Dear Abby: I am a 54-year-old woman who, after 40 years, reconnected with my childhood best friend, “Neil.” We are now engaged. I have no children, but Neil has two girls ages 11 and 13. The 11-year-old is in therapy and on medication for depression and anxiety. I love them as if they were my own. Their mother is useless and irresponsible, and Neil can’t stand her.
Dear Abby: My fiancé comes with anger issues and chaos. Should I say ‘I do’?
Dear Abby: I am a 54-year-old woman who, after 40 years, reconnected with my childhood best friend, “Neil.” We are now engaged. I have no children, but Neil has two girls ages 11 and 13. The 11-year-old is in therapy and on medication for depression and anxiety. I love them as if they were my own. Their mother is useless and irresponsible, and Neil can’t stand her.
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