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Asking Eric: Widowed Stepmother Won’t Return Family Heirlooms
R. Eric Thomas says a will check and a formal request may be needed if the executor has held the heirlooms for 10 years.
A reader contacted advice columnist R. Eric Thomas regarding a 10-year estate dispute, claiming the stepmother has retained family heirlooms following the death of their father.
The stepmother, married to the reader's father for 25 years, began dating again within months of his death and now maintains possession of the items by default.
Items like the grandfather's grand piano and library hold great sentimental importance, the reader stated: "I'm not a calculating person; I just want my things."
Thomas advised that 10 years exceeds reasonable expectations for estate administration, recommending the reader determine if a will exists and consult an estate attorney.
Although Thomas cautioned against legal escalation, he noted it may become the reader's only recourse if the stepmother fails to execute the will or remains unresponsive.