The murder trial of Lindsay Clancy, accused of strangling her three children, has gripped the nation. Social media has been filled with true crime sleuths at home finding alternate theories of the case and postpartum advocates pointing out the ways the system failed the entire Clancy family and just gossips getting the ick over how quickly the dad, Patrick Clancy, remarried. And of course, there’s the genuine grief over the loss of three young l…